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The Borrowed Identity Reset

You didn't lose confidence—you were trained to be responsible before being self-directed.

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For responsible, capable women who feel internally misaligned despite doing everything right.

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You Feel Misaligned Despite Doing Everything Right

The Hidden Struggle

  • You've mastered responsibility but feel disconnected from yourself
  • Success feels hollow despite external achievements
  • Decision-making feels like choosing between what others expect and what you want

The Internal Conflict

  • You question your instincts because you've always prioritized others' needs
  • Confidence feels like something you lost, not something you never had
  • You're exhausted from maintaining an identity that doesn't fit

This isn't burnout. This isn't failure. This is what happens when you're taught to be responsible before you learned to be self-directed.

The Identity-Order Reversal

Responsibility was given to you before identity was formed. You learned to meet expectations before discovering who you are. This isn't a character flaw—it's a sequence error.

What You Were Taught

  • • Be responsible first
  • • Meet others' expectations
  • • Achievement equals worth
  • • Self-sacrifice is noble

What Was Missed

  • • Who you actually are
  • • Your authentic desires
  • • Internal compass
  • • Self-directed choice

The result: You're excellent at being responsible for others, but lost when it comes to being responsible for yourself.

The Webinar Promise

In this 90-minute masterclass, you'll learn how to reset the borrowed identity that was given to you before you had a choice—and finally access the self-directed woman who was always underneath.

1

Identify

Recognize the borrowed patterns

2

Reset

Release what was never yours

3

Access

Connect with your true self

Leave with a clear framework to make decisions from your authentic identity—not the one you inherited.

What You'll Learn

1

The Identity Audit

Discover which parts of your identity were borrowed vs. chosen

2

The Pattern Reset

Release automatic responses that aren't aligned with your truth

3

The Compass Recalibration

Rebuild your internal guidance system from authentic self-knowledge

4

The Decision Framework

Make choices from self-direction, not inherited responsibility

5

The Boundary Protocol

Set limits that protect your authentic identity

6

The Integration Practice

Live from your real identity in daily decisions

Who This Is For

This Is For You If

  • You're responsible and capable but feel internally misaligned
  • You've achieved success but it doesn't feel like yours
  • You make decisions based on what others expect
  • You want to access your real preferences and desires
  • You're ready to live from authentic choice

This Is Not For You If

  • × You're looking for quick fixes or surface-level tips
  • × You want to blame others for your circumstances
  • × You're not willing to examine your inherited patterns
  • × You prefer staying comfortable over being truthful
  • × You want someone else to tell you who to be

About Me & The Community

About Me

I'm a psychologist who spent a decade watching brilliant women master responsibility while losing themselves. After my own identity reset, I developed this framework for women ready to reclaim their self-direction.

This work combines psychological insight with practical tools—no fluff, no hype, just clarity.

The Community

Join women who understand this isn't about doing more—it's about being more of who you actually are.

  • Monthly identity reset circles
  • Private discussion space
  • Ongoing support and connection

Your Complete Identity Reset Package

Free Masterclass

90-minute live session with Q&A and lifetime access to replay

$0

Self-Directed Identity Course

4-week self-paced course with exercises and frameworks

$297 $497

Private 1:1 Session

60-minute personalized identity reset consultation

Complementary

Community Access

Monthly circles and private discussion space for 6 months

Included

Total Value: $794

Your Investment: Free

Register for Free

Date, Time & Access

Date

January 25, 2024

Time

12:00 PM EST

Duration

90 Minutes

Can't make it live? No problem.

All registrants receive lifetime access to the replay.

Register for Free

Registration closes January 24 at 11:59 PM EST